“This one is life changing for me and for so many others. The author has experienced the depth of losses and has a clinical background that is sufficient to showcase how little the industry of therapists and the gaggles of well-meaning people actually understand and can help us through the throes of grief”

— Tyler Cartwright

“The author is making a coherent argument that empathy, as it is commonly understood, is actually making us less compassionate and less good to one another. It’s not a difficult read in terms of the authorship, but the concept is a heavy and complex one for sure.”

— Tyler Cartwright